Shashank Tyagi

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3 powerful steps of effective communication

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Communication is like a superpower which can bring dramatic improvement in results you get in your Job, the way you handle your personal relationships, the way you handle conflicts, the way you stand out of crowd & able to make an impact.

Being good with vocabulary & grammar doesn’t necessarily establish a person as a good communicator. 

Communication is like a rich recipe, You can’t have it all with only one or two masalas. The real flavour comes with right mix & due process, so is the case of impacting people with your communication.

1. Find a common ground

Communication as a word derives from the common. 

Before striking a conversation you should find the common grounds which are shared between you and the other person. Its not necessary that other person will be liking whatever you do in your life or beliefs you have.

But interesting fact about being human is that there is always some common ground or we can build one.

2. Be an engaged listener

An effective communication requires genuine listening, which requires five main aspects: center all your focus on the speaker, don’t interrupt the speaker, leave your judgmental side apart, present your interest in his or her message by adding small comments like ‘yes’ or ‘I understand,’ and ask questions to ensure that you’ve fully understood.”

Listening is similarly or I should say in many cases its more important than speaking. We are trained to speak & write, but listening has always been taken for granted.

Practice listening as core or enhanced component of your communication now on. And people around you will be able to see the difference & they will feel more connected to your words.

3. Active Body language

Our presence is a communication in itself, so how we sit, look, move has lot to communicate with other persons in the room. 

Use your body language—which includes gestures, facial expressions, voice tones, eye contact, postures.

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Relationships; the ships of wonderful life

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The etymology of the word relationship has come from the word “relate”, thus if you are not related there can be no relationship. Dichotomy is that many relationships are going on with this fundamental fact of being related to the other person, their world, their feelings – missing !

In some relationships we were dropped into the ship by nature like relation of Father, mother, daughter, son, grand parents, etc. But their are other ships too like life partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, colleagues … many more, we boarded the ship as matter of our choice.

Our education system is focused on how to build a successful career. But don’t you think career is one crucial wheel but successful relationships across the spectrum have same importance. 

People who make it big in their life know how to built strong relationships with their partners, parents, friends, clients. They build alliances which resonate on similar frequency as they are and thus have a sense of satisfaction.

Big brands spend millions of dollars on continuously understanding what their customer wants, how this demand is shifting, make efforts to never loose their customer, renewing brand customer relationship by offering new experiences.

And here is the tip : with little manoeuvring we can apply it on all relationships.

I have seen leaders of industry, successful bureaucrats dwindling when it comes personal relationships. But there is beauty in life, no matter how bad things turned up, there is always a way to turn things to brighter side. 

And I’m blessed to part of journeys of some people who shifted their relationships from no scope to vibes of love & affinity again.

Relationships are not just threads which connects one another but they are like live wires – Powering our life. 

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“Whats possible” is beyond knowing

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“Nothing is impossible” is among the most used phrase in our life. Sometimes it helps people to get through a difficult phase. Sometimes it remains a conundrum or just a layer of paint over a broken wall. 

Knowing is a way of salvation but also a way of doom too. Our reality is created on the basis of things we know, opinions we have gathered, experiences we have gained. But don’t you think that many times what we know, what opinions we made are based on one view or limited view.

Take example of wright brothers who are regarded for inventing first successful motor operated flying plane, they were not some engineers or having specialisation in aeronautics. They were able to take action out of the box because they were not limited by the conventions or knowings followed by engineering fraternity of that time.

When I dive into life of our participants, I found that the core of the most of limitations they face in their life whether its their career, health, money or relationships are not because of things that they don’t know, rules that they didn’t followed, actions they didn’t take but because of conditioning they have gone through in their life and which caused their own reality/ a limited view of life or knowing,

To create remarkable results everyone has to break the shells of knowing and thats how we can experience life as a whole. Whole is available for us, Here & Now.

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